Final Year Syndrome

Wednesday, 20 March 2013
I guess that's how I'm going to call for all the things that happen in my house and happen to all final year student's house, I believe. But what do I mean with that phrase final year syndrome? It is a drastic changes that happen to all final years students. If not all, I dare to say almost all. And maybe, including me. Haha in this thought sharing,  I'm actually laughing and trolling myself, frankly speaking.

1. Final Year Project (FYP)
In this case I'm excluded. All of my friends are taking their FYP 1 for this semester and they are almost crazy about it. When there is a deadline for report or presentation, they will be the zombies who don't sleep and work around the clock. They are freaking nervous when the conversation topic start to change from something else to FYP. Or it is more simply said "you will not complete your FYP without crying".

2. Yes to work, no to study.
There are a lot of my friends who can't tolerate to study things anymore after coming back from internship. They really want to finish as soon as possible. They prefer working environment compared to the pressure of study, assignments, tests, quizzes, projects and exams. Especially to those who already found the joy of being in their field, the job that they are born for, they started counting days to graduation.

3. Beauty and health.
This is the biggest matter as I seen. I'm not sure if this happen to boys, but my friends are all being so obsessed in dieting, skin care, make up, and any product that help them to be better in health and beauty. I'm truly loving and supporting them when they are aware of the importance of health and beauty. They don't go to no-eat-the-whole-day-diet but they go for eat-what-your-body-need diet. They exercise too. You know how hard girls want to initiate an exercise compare to boy. Boys play football a lot. I can see it every evening when I pass the field. Some are also dying to get better skin. Like me. LOL. I'm seriously half-crazy to find a way for better skin complexion. Oily, blemished, scars and dark skin is really a nightmare for me. No matter for what reason we all being like this, I hope that the effort to be healthy and naturally beautiful will last till the end. Remember that we want to be fit and gorgeous not only because of that one main reason rite.

4. Future hubby and future wifey.
The main reason that is commonly said when final year try to fix their physical appearance is because of marriage. Dear all friends, dear all future hubbies, dear all future wives, we all have the same thought, same feeling. As marriage become near, although we might not know exactly when is it, or are we going to have one, we don't want to screw up. We want to be the best and look good to someone we belongs to. But I really impressed with friend who are not only looking physical appearance as the only thing, but they seek a lot of knowledge of developing inner self and building a blessed marriage. Alhamdulillah, now we all are matured women and man. LOL.

Sometimes, I really really really hope that people take my facebook status seriously. I might not be officially and culturally engaged but my heart is engaged and fully occupied since years ago. Occupied with something that does not fade with time, or large spaces. I just want to nod my head and say yes when people pointing the silver ring around my finger and thought I'm married. I don't want you who are asking more. I don't want you who are chasing. I don't want you who offer kindness to much, more than what I need for studies. I just want, and I'm praying that Allah make ease and fasten the right way if what I have felt since almost 4 years ago are right, written up there whether it is belong to me. The feeling of missing something does not come by itself, it comes with the sweet, the bitter, the memories, the tears and the times went through all these test and tribulation. Allah will guide us all. Have faith, people.

Oh ya. We are what we eat, we are what we read. Make sure we eat good, we read good :)

Let's start this one tonight! :D

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